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Relationships & Psychology

Relationships & Psychology

Attachment, communication, conflict and the patterns behind how we connect.

A woman stares tensely through her car windshield at twilight with clenched jaw and white knuckles on the steering wheel
Relationships & Psychology

Rehearsing arguments in your head makes you pick unnecessary fights

You are stopped at a red light three miles from home, gripping the steering wheel. In your head, your partner has just told you that you are overreacting. You answer with three examples from last month where they did the exact same thing. By the time the light turns green, they…

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Relationships & Psychology

Loving someone for their potential makes you resent who they are

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Relationships & Psychology

Picking fights when things are peaceful means calm feels dangerous

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